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 | Being confused...how does it work to be attracted over thousands of miles...?
Created: Oct 19, 08 | 3 Entries | 87 Views |  |
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| | | @ JanaeCatt: Thank you so much for your answer...I agree with you, the far distance also implys chances, since I actually spend more timy with this one person than with anybody else. No reason to run away from feelings coz they appeared in an uneypected wise. Being myself is even easier than in 'real' life, without too much shyness, so she meanwhile knows all about my 'secrets' and she also communicates in a trustful and honest way.
But I also face the one disadvantage of this kind of reltionship. She is in a critical illness and I feel only to be helpless, unable to give her any support - though she has another view about this. In her view she can lean on me by talking about her fear, sometimes complaining also, and she often expresses to be thankful for this opportunity.
by walkerhb | Posted: Nov 1, 08 | | |
| | |  | i have seen couples get married from meeting online and chatting on the im.... it is possible to fall for the person if you're both as open and honest as you can be, which to me is limitless.... since you don't have the guards up ( are they satisfied with my looks do they think iam silly? etc) online you can be as open as you like or as shut as you'd like... i have a few friends who i care for deeply and 2 who i thought i was in love with, 1 of whom i still chat to but i know it isn't real beyond our creative levels of communication mostly because we haven't formally met(in fact i've never seen him) i guess it is that very freedom that keeps me and he attached mentally along with some very interesting conversations, not to mention that unlike with many of my friends, i am actually able to express my truest feeling with him. i am talking things i can't tell my husband i can say to this friend without worrying about anything cuz he knows i am far enbough away tilit doesn'ttruly matter it takes the pain and edge off..... but for my one specialest of friends i awake at 5 am to chat... i'd say it works out well if you have open conversations and aren't afraid to be you.....
by JanaeCatt | Posted: Oct 25, 08 | | |
| | | | I am really confused...because I always had the opinion that falling in love 'only' by chat, mails and messaging was a fantasy. But actually I make a similar experience I never had before...We talked often within the last months and noticed to have many common features and thoughts. But meanwhile I feel fascinated and attracted by her although we never met personally. It's not love of course but I seem to be 'dangered' concerning my growing feelings. I get happy whenever we meet (via IM) and I miss her if we cannot converse. She is 'too often' in my thoughts...Being aware that here is the typical conflict between heart and brain I ask myself one question: Isn't this hopeless? Please share your experiences and thoughts with me...
by walkerhb | Posted: Oct 19, 08 | | |
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